10 things every groom must do before the big day

While they may not be called upon to pick flowers or choose cake flavours, there are actually some things that grooms-to-be need to do before making the walk down the aisle.

 

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Gone are the days when wedding planning was left to the bride alone. Nowadays, grooms are also actively involved in the nitty-gritty process that leads to the main day.

While they may not be called upon to pick flowers or choose cake flavours, there are actually some things that grooms-to-be need to do before making the walk down the aisle.

Here are the top 10 pre-wedding "must do" list for grooms. (Psst: Brides, discreetly pass this along to your fiancés!)

1. Pick a suit that suits the wedding style: "The most important thing for a couple to consider when planning their formal wear attire is the style and feel of the wedding," says Christina Steinbrenner, Director of Tuxedo Marketing. "For a traditional, more formal event, a classic tuxedo with a notch, shawl or peak lapel is ideal. Slim-fit silhouettes have been most popular lately. For a less traditional option, shades of gray are hugely popular. Destination or beach weddings call for a lighter gray, tan or even jacketless tuxedo."
2. Accessorize: Put the finishing touches on your look with a perfectly folded pocket square or fun socks for an extra pop of colour, Steinbrenner says. Accessories make all the difference!
3. Get a haircut, but not the day before: If the trim is too close, this will leave time to let it grow out.
4. Schedule a cleaning service: Hire a cleaner for the week of your wedding and for the duration of your honeymoon. Your house or apartment will look impeccable when things get busy, and it'll be so nice to come back to a clean home when your honeymoon is over.
5. Go out dancing: Whether it's going out to a bottle service club until 3:00 a.m. or just having a nice dinner at home with the first dance music ready to go, schedule an excuse to practice that choreographed first dance!
6. Plan something special for your bride for the wedding day: It doesn't have to be lavish—or even anything you spend a lot of money on—but something thoughtful like a letter and champagne will help make a special day even more magical. Just make sure the delivery arrives at the perfect time.
7. Say "I love you"—often: Leave little notes everywhere. Post-its, chalkboard doodles, slips of paper under fridge magnets. This is the time to be romantic (and yes, even cheesy)!
8. Work on your vows: Transcribe all "for vows" notes on your phone, and take a stab at writing something eloquent. And if the vows are already done, practice 'em.
9. Stay on top of the rehearsal dinner: Check in with the priest/rabbi/officiant and make sure both sets of parents and all wedding party members know when and where to show up. Taking the whole party off her plate is a huge gesture and will greatly reduce her stress.
10. Seduce her: Sex kills stress and it'll take the edge off of the wedding night in case the reception goes all night.